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If you’re there temporarily or to study abroad you can certainly have a wonderful, whirlwind romance with a Frenchman, however, remember to manage your expectations and just know what you’re getting yourself into.
The problems I have encountered have mainly stemmed from a lack of openness between me and my partner.
Some French men I’ve dated have never been to the States and don’t understand American culture enough to understand where I’m coming from.
When dating cross-culturally, not only do you have to get used to the norms of a new dating culture, but your partner must also adapt to the fact that they are dating a woman who has been raised to ascribe to a whole different set. This is why communication is absolutely the most important factor in the success of any relationship, especially one with a foreigner.
A few of mine include nighttime walks in the rain along the Seine, being kissed on a bridge with the Eiffel Tower behind us, riding around the city on the back of a scooter, and strolling hand in hand on the love lock bridge.
Even if it seems like they’re not feeling it, it’s definitely possible that you’ll still end up having the romantic French encounter you’ve always (not-so-secretly) wanted.
I always take care to clarify it with them now, though, after briefly dating a guy who was relationship-minded, about which I wasn’t fully aware until drunkenly asking him outside of a bar at 4 in the morning after we’d been together for a couple of weeks.
Yes, it was awkward and could have been avoided had we had the conversation earlier.
Not every French guy I’ve kissed has been looking for that, and most of those who weren’t have told me.Dance clubs and dive bars may have worked in the '90s, but now, even if you’re out, your phone is a much easier way to find someone to "watch Netflix and chill" with (especially someone you won’t regret tomorrow).And the great thing is, whether you prefer chatting extensively with your new crush first or a little fantasy in your play, there are diverse options to suit your every whim and desire.Obviously sex is an important factor of any relationship.Sexual compatibility is very important in French dating culture and will be one of the first deciding factors in whether or not the relationship will work out.
Additionally, the younger they are, the less likely they are to be looking for something serious.